My question involves a child custody case from the State of: OK
On dec 10, 14 my grandson was born. My sons fiance had a doctors appointments just about everyday since Jan. 2nd. I have always gone with her (0r stayed home depending on weather) to watch their baby. I didn't mind helping at all, I even watched the baby while she attended GED classes and my son attended HVAC classes after work on Tues and Thurs just until March. Additionally, I was assisting them by watching the baby in the early morning (around 4am) so that my son could get some sleep before going to work at 7am as she could not wake up to care for the baby and usually did not get out of bed until well after 9am to relieve me. Again, I did not mind - he is a good baby.
On January 31st she had a doctors appointment, however this time she decided to take the baby on her own and go visit a friend after the appoinment. She then said that she (and my son) would be spending the weekend at her dads so he can visit with the baby. I didn't give it a second thought, until that evening she told my son that she pawned her wedding ring as was staying the weekend at a well known low end hotel - not her dads.
He was confused as she led him to believe that they were spending the weekend together.
On Feb 1st she came to the house to pick up her and the babys clothes, etc. and returned to the hotel.
On Monday, my son went to a lawyer and filed for custody/visitation. On Tuesday, I came home from taking my dad to Dialysis and there was a sheriff waiting to serve me with a protection order she filed against me stating that I came at her when she came to get her things on Saturday, which never happened.
We pay and have paid for her cell phone for a year, she continually sends threatening messages to my son, husband and until I blocked her myself.
Today, while I was gone taking my dad to Dialysis she friended a police officer and he came to my home to collect items she said she left at the house. She filed a PO against me and sent a police officer without her with him to gather her items.
Of course I was not home, but he did reach my son via phone. My son informed him that there was nobody home and asked why he was there. Our attorney stated that she can not collect any items until our hearing this Thursday and the judge hears her case against me. She is staying at her dads and her stepmother is also familar with some of the police officers in the area, she is the one that sent him to our home without probable cause or permission from his superior.
I am just looking for advice or others experiences on how to deal with this unexpected situation.
Thank you in advance.
On dec 10, 14 my grandson was born. My sons fiance had a doctors appointments just about everyday since Jan. 2nd. I have always gone with her (0r stayed home depending on weather) to watch their baby. I didn't mind helping at all, I even watched the baby while she attended GED classes and my son attended HVAC classes after work on Tues and Thurs just until March. Additionally, I was assisting them by watching the baby in the early morning (around 4am) so that my son could get some sleep before going to work at 7am as she could not wake up to care for the baby and usually did not get out of bed until well after 9am to relieve me. Again, I did not mind - he is a good baby.
On January 31st she had a doctors appointment, however this time she decided to take the baby on her own and go visit a friend after the appoinment. She then said that she (and my son) would be spending the weekend at her dads so he can visit with the baby. I didn't give it a second thought, until that evening she told my son that she pawned her wedding ring as was staying the weekend at a well known low end hotel - not her dads.
He was confused as she led him to believe that they were spending the weekend together.
On Feb 1st she came to the house to pick up her and the babys clothes, etc. and returned to the hotel.
On Monday, my son went to a lawyer and filed for custody/visitation. On Tuesday, I came home from taking my dad to Dialysis and there was a sheriff waiting to serve me with a protection order she filed against me stating that I came at her when she came to get her things on Saturday, which never happened.
We pay and have paid for her cell phone for a year, she continually sends threatening messages to my son, husband and until I blocked her myself.
Today, while I was gone taking my dad to Dialysis she friended a police officer and he came to my home to collect items she said she left at the house. She filed a PO against me and sent a police officer without her with him to gather her items.
Of course I was not home, but he did reach my son via phone. My son informed him that there was nobody home and asked why he was there. Our attorney stated that she can not collect any items until our hearing this Thursday and the judge hears her case against me. She is staying at her dads and her stepmother is also familar with some of the police officers in the area, she is the one that sent him to our home without probable cause or permission from his superior.
I am just looking for advice or others experiences on how to deal with this unexpected situation.
Thank you in advance.
Grandparents and Third Parties: Unwed Custody Problems/Questions
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