My question involves a child custody case from the State of: New York
I (mom) have a 2008 final order of visitation from the Supreme Court of NYS.
It states supervised visitation alternate Saturdays, supervised by my friend who is named therein.
It also states Dad is to call 2 hours prior or no visit, he shouldn't drink prior, no negative remarks, etc.
He saw our daughter this way for one year, then stopped with no communications.
In 2010 he came by my home to see her.
I let him. (the order of protection I had against him had expired)
From 2010 until recently, he would show up (always unannounced) at my door 2 or 3 times a year and visit her for about 30 minutes.
That was their only communication.
On his last two impromptu visits, he got nasty and accusatory with me, and I asked him to leave my house.
I suggested he call my friend and resume visitation that way. He said he never would.
He filed for a modification instead, stating:I don't let him take his daughter and do not cooperate with scheduling visits. And that my friend is no longer able to supervise visits. (NOT TRUE. And I have her notarized statement to bring to court with me).
My question is: Did I actually violate the court order by letting him see his daughter at my house, and not insisting on supervised visitation?
I didn't want to make waves, and figured a few minutes of positive interaction with her dad was better than none at all, so I let this go on,
even though I am still afraid of him, as he has been violent and dangerous before. That's why when he starts in on me, I've asked him to leave.
I do not want to be in trouble with the court! Please advise.
I (mom) have a 2008 final order of visitation from the Supreme Court of NYS.
It states supervised visitation alternate Saturdays, supervised by my friend who is named therein.
It also states Dad is to call 2 hours prior or no visit, he shouldn't drink prior, no negative remarks, etc.
He saw our daughter this way for one year, then stopped with no communications.
In 2010 he came by my home to see her.
I let him. (the order of protection I had against him had expired)
From 2010 until recently, he would show up (always unannounced) at my door 2 or 3 times a year and visit her for about 30 minutes.
That was their only communication.
On his last two impromptu visits, he got nasty and accusatory with me, and I asked him to leave my house.
I suggested he call my friend and resume visitation that way. He said he never would.
He filed for a modification instead, stating:I don't let him take his daughter and do not cooperate with scheduling visits. And that my friend is no longer able to supervise visits. (NOT TRUE. And I have her notarized statement to bring to court with me).
My question is: Did I actually violate the court order by letting him see his daughter at my house, and not insisting on supervised visitation?
I didn't want to make waves, and figured a few minutes of positive interaction with her dad was better than none at all, so I let this go on,
even though I am still afraid of him, as he has been violent and dangerous before. That's why when he starts in on me, I've asked him to leave.
I do not want to be in trouble with the court! Please advise.
Enforcing Custody Orders: Dad Claims I Am in Violation of Visitation Order - Am I
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