My question involves a child custody case from the State of: TN
My son's father recently started smoking, and does so around my son. When I asked him about it (because I don't get how someone would start smoking at 30 years old) he says it is stress... and that he struggles with depression since coming back from Cuba (Navy). I asked him about the smoking because my son started coming home from parenting time with his dad smelling like cigarettes. I am allergic to cigarettes.
As you all know, dad recently filed for custody, still has not made a motion for trial though, and is changing jobs again so I don't expect the trial any time soon.
I have two questions - Can I do anything about my son's father sending him home in a condition that I am allergic to him? And what impact can this have in court either for or against me?
Please note - I apologize if this offends any smokers. I am hyper-sensitive to second and third hand cigarette smoke. I can not hug my child after he's been with his father. I cannot bring my son's belongings into the house, including the clothes he is wearing... my son has to strip in the garage and head straight for the bath.... This is a significant problem for me, and unhealthy for my son, so any advice on what my rights are, or ways to handle it is appreciated.
Also, I am not unsympathetic to his issues... but he will never seek out help for a mental problems. I am not a doctor, but I am quite confident in declaring him a narcissist. Admitting his flaws and mistakes won't happen. I also don't see him ever quitting smoking.
My son's father recently started smoking, and does so around my son. When I asked him about it (because I don't get how someone would start smoking at 30 years old) he says it is stress... and that he struggles with depression since coming back from Cuba (Navy). I asked him about the smoking because my son started coming home from parenting time with his dad smelling like cigarettes. I am allergic to cigarettes.
As you all know, dad recently filed for custody, still has not made a motion for trial though, and is changing jobs again so I don't expect the trial any time soon.
I have two questions - Can I do anything about my son's father sending him home in a condition that I am allergic to him? And what impact can this have in court either for or against me?
Please note - I apologize if this offends any smokers. I am hyper-sensitive to second and third hand cigarette smoke. I can not hug my child after he's been with his father. I cannot bring my son's belongings into the house, including the clothes he is wearing... my son has to strip in the garage and head straight for the bath.... This is a significant problem for me, and unhealthy for my son, so any advice on what my rights are, or ways to handle it is appreciated.
Also, I am not unsympathetic to his issues... but he will never seek out help for a mental problems. I am not a doctor, but I am quite confident in declaring him a narcissist. Admitting his flaws and mistakes won't happen. I also don't see him ever quitting smoking.
Custody and Visitation Issues: Parenting Time, Child's Health, and Allergies
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