My question involves child abuse or neglect in the State of: Washington.
I'm currently going through divorce proceedings with my ex husband. We have 2 wonderful, amazing children. I have electronic proof that my ex is abusing drugs, making suicidal statements & basically behaving in a manner that is dangerous to our children. I'm going to court with my evidence but in the meantime he is talking to our children about the divorce proceedings, telling them horrible, untrue, things about me & prying them directly in the middle. He's got my children trying to spy for him, lying for him & they are to the point where they believe whatever he says. He is a narcissist, mentally & verbally abusive & I have no idea how to help my kids. I won't discuss the divorce with them, that'd be the same thing he's doing to them but how do I get my kids to understand that what he's doing & saying is wrong? My kids need help & I feel like my hands are tied. He's hurting them, they worry about things no child should worry about. My kids are 8 & 9. My ex doesn't spend any time with them, he ignores them except when he's interrogating them about me or when he's telling them horrible things about me. He's even told them that I left them. I've NEVER, EVER, left my kids. I left HIM & he refuses to let it go. Look up narcissistic bastard & there's probably a picture of him next to the definition. How do I help my babies through this? I'm at a total loss. I've never been good at talking about feelings & this is totally out of my element. Can anyone help?
I'm currently going through divorce proceedings with my ex husband. We have 2 wonderful, amazing children. I have electronic proof that my ex is abusing drugs, making suicidal statements & basically behaving in a manner that is dangerous to our children. I'm going to court with my evidence but in the meantime he is talking to our children about the divorce proceedings, telling them horrible, untrue, things about me & prying them directly in the middle. He's got my children trying to spy for him, lying for him & they are to the point where they believe whatever he says. He is a narcissist, mentally & verbally abusive & I have no idea how to help my kids. I won't discuss the divorce with them, that'd be the same thing he's doing to them but how do I get my kids to understand that what he's doing & saying is wrong? My kids need help & I feel like my hands are tied. He's hurting them, they worry about things no child should worry about. My kids are 8 & 9. My ex doesn't spend any time with them, he ignores them except when he's interrogating them about me or when he's telling them horrible things about me. He's even told them that I left them. I've NEVER, EVER, left my kids. I left HIM & he refuses to let it go. Look up narcissistic bastard & there's probably a picture of him next to the definition. How do I help my babies through this? I'm at a total loss. I've never been good at talking about feelings & this is totally out of my element. Can anyone help?
Child Abuse: Narcissistic Father Abusing Our Kids-Going Through a Divorce
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