My question involves a power of attorney in the state of Virginia I am assuming which may not be good but anyways I feel she is doing this to my husband how do I really find out she is I have done an online account of her and his banking account she writes all our bills pays them late which I hate I got online checked account and there was an overdrawn on his account of 72 dollars for February.
There was another overdrawn last October at that time I was writing our checks well her with her controlling self takes checkbook away she sees me handling a checking account is to much no you wont to control everything we have been now going on 8 months she says she does not have an problem us getting an account she did get us account in December 2014 $305.00 comes out my husbands check now I know my husband s insurance does not cover everything she went to social services they could not help.
Last month she wont s to say she wont s 200 dollars to come out our money I said yes but this is not going to work mind you it was 275.00 then silly me gives her fifty dollars out of my daughter s account she is 22 disabled also husband to there are other ways to pay on that hospital bill my husband needs clothes we end up without because of her I am sick and tired of this stressing etc she got me mad when I asked about food said all money was gone for bills what really gets me when I seem upset and mad she will call next day am I alright we had a talk this last time.
I told her she makes me feel stupid that she was controlling she wont s to tell me not to leave him by himself when my daughter is in the hospital they babied him so much I feel gave everything he is very quite easygoing I have been told he wont ever speak up to her well something best give.
I see things the overdrawn she did not tell either one of about it the bills got out of hand when mom passed nobody looking at the mail she is sneaky etc and this needs to be stopped so how do I go about really getting someone to help me to see if she is really using his money my problem is her intimidating side I would like to her not know what I am doing adult protective services has came into mind few other things this needs sorry to be stopped we cannot keep living like this and I do not wont to give up on my marriage because of her.
I have not seen any checks wrote to her the question is after bills money left in account him and her have you check less then what it was so where is that money going being used for as much money as this man gets.
There was another overdrawn last October at that time I was writing our checks well her with her controlling self takes checkbook away she sees me handling a checking account is to much no you wont to control everything we have been now going on 8 months she says she does not have an problem us getting an account she did get us account in December 2014 $305.00 comes out my husbands check now I know my husband s insurance does not cover everything she went to social services they could not help.
Last month she wont s to say she wont s 200 dollars to come out our money I said yes but this is not going to work mind you it was 275.00 then silly me gives her fifty dollars out of my daughter s account she is 22 disabled also husband to there are other ways to pay on that hospital bill my husband needs clothes we end up without because of her I am sick and tired of this stressing etc she got me mad when I asked about food said all money was gone for bills what really gets me when I seem upset and mad she will call next day am I alright we had a talk this last time.
I told her she makes me feel stupid that she was controlling she wont s to tell me not to leave him by himself when my daughter is in the hospital they babied him so much I feel gave everything he is very quite easygoing I have been told he wont ever speak up to her well something best give.
I see things the overdrawn she did not tell either one of about it the bills got out of hand when mom passed nobody looking at the mail she is sneaky etc and this needs to be stopped so how do I go about really getting someone to help me to see if she is really using his money my problem is her intimidating side I would like to her not know what I am doing adult protective services has came into mind few other things this needs sorry to be stopped we cannot keep living like this and I do not wont to give up on my marriage because of her.
I have not seen any checks wrote to her the question is after bills money left in account him and her have you check less then what it was so where is that money going being used for as much money as this man gets.
Serving as Agent: What to Do when Someone Holding Power of Attorney May Be Misappropriating Money
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