My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Texas
In our original divorce decree we had a modification agreeing on meeting in a location outside of her residence because at the time I was living with my parents and they prefered that he not come to their house. Since then we have moved to a new location and I am fine with him picking her up at home because the location stated in the decree is now an hour away and it would a lot easier on my daughter to just have him pick her up at home. He stated that he wanted me to go through the due process and modify the decree...okay.
He refuses to meet at the residence. He says that he doesnt feel safe.
We have had a previous altercation where I was in a physical argument with his girlfriend after she refused to give my child to me at the time of exchange. I was provoked to the point of where self defense was required.
He is using this as ammo. Even though the altercation was between his girlfriend and I and not he and I. And the altercation was due to the fact that she was provoking me. He says he wants a place where there are cameras and people. The place that we meet at now has that, but it obviously did not stop the altercation from happening. It was an outside influence that did. He is just always trying to be in control and says that I am the one that makes things difficult. I feel my daughter is the safest at home and it would easier on her to not have to wake up hours early to make it to the location on time. Is this not correct? And isn't it normal for pick up to happen at the home? I mean that is was the decree says without the modication later on. If nothing is making the child unsafe, is this a request that will most likely be granted by a judge? He even refuses to sign a waiver to move the case to the county in which we both now reside. He is completely ridiculous.
If we state a specific location and I move again...we will just be back at square one and I will have to pay more money and get a lawyer to have another location carried out when it could simply be picking her up at her residence.
In our original divorce decree we had a modification agreeing on meeting in a location outside of her residence because at the time I was living with my parents and they prefered that he not come to their house. Since then we have moved to a new location and I am fine with him picking her up at home because the location stated in the decree is now an hour away and it would a lot easier on my daughter to just have him pick her up at home. He stated that he wanted me to go through the due process and modify the decree...okay.
He refuses to meet at the residence. He says that he doesnt feel safe.
We have had a previous altercation where I was in a physical argument with his girlfriend after she refused to give my child to me at the time of exchange. I was provoked to the point of where self defense was required.
He is using this as ammo. Even though the altercation was between his girlfriend and I and not he and I. And the altercation was due to the fact that she was provoking me. He says he wants a place where there are cameras and people. The place that we meet at now has that, but it obviously did not stop the altercation from happening. It was an outside influence that did. He is just always trying to be in control and says that I am the one that makes things difficult. I feel my daughter is the safest at home and it would easier on her to not have to wake up hours early to make it to the location on time. Is this not correct? And isn't it normal for pick up to happen at the home? I mean that is was the decree says without the modication later on. If nothing is making the child unsafe, is this a request that will most likely be granted by a judge? He even refuses to sign a waiver to move the case to the county in which we both now reside. He is completely ridiculous.
If we state a specific location and I move again...we will just be back at square one and I will have to pay more money and get a lawyer to have another location carried out when it could simply be picking her up at her residence.
Modification of Custody: Changing Location of Exchange to Residence of Child
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