My question involves child support in the State of: California
Hello to you all. Thanks for taking the time to read this. I will do my best to be as detailed as possible without going off the rails. I had a child with a woman who temporarily resided in the San Francisco Bay Area but originally from Germany. We were a couple and we were living together. The moment she had our child she moved out, filed for child support, and left the country with our child without me knowing. She set me up. Plain and simple. Nothing made sense. Fast forward 3.5 +/- years from now I have not seen my son (beyond Skype and pictures she occasionally send through e-mail). I spoke to a few Hague attorneys and they said it would be a lengthy and very costly fight between the courts of both counties (via Hague Convention).
The county, in which I reside, sends her cheques bi-weekly. She admitted she does not work, she goes to school full time, and the support is used to care for the 3 of them (Yes! Three. She left pregnant by another guy from Bay Area). Yep, she admitted several times she uses the child support to live off of. She's very careful with what she says by e-mail and instant message because she's worried it can be used against her. She's more comfortable, open, and honest on Skype video/call. She does not cooperate, she refuses to keep in contact, and refuses any type of visitation. This woman has ruined my life. I don't have a relationship with our child. I believe she sees our child as just a pay cheque. I need to get the child support terminated. Is this possible without risking having to pay her more? I just don't know what to do anymore. Someone please help :confused:
Hello to you all. Thanks for taking the time to read this. I will do my best to be as detailed as possible without going off the rails. I had a child with a woman who temporarily resided in the San Francisco Bay Area but originally from Germany. We were a couple and we were living together. The moment she had our child she moved out, filed for child support, and left the country with our child without me knowing. She set me up. Plain and simple. Nothing made sense. Fast forward 3.5 +/- years from now I have not seen my son (beyond Skype and pictures she occasionally send through e-mail). I spoke to a few Hague attorneys and they said it would be a lengthy and very costly fight between the courts of both counties (via Hague Convention).
The county, in which I reside, sends her cheques bi-weekly. She admitted she does not work, she goes to school full time, and the support is used to care for the 3 of them (Yes! Three. She left pregnant by another guy from Bay Area). Yep, she admitted several times she uses the child support to live off of. She's very careful with what she says by e-mail and instant message because she's worried it can be used against her. She's more comfortable, open, and honest on Skype video/call. She does not cooperate, she refuses to keep in contact, and refuses any type of visitation. This woman has ruined my life. I don't have a relationship with our child. I believe she sees our child as just a pay cheque. I need to get the child support terminated. Is this possible without risking having to pay her more? I just don't know what to do anymore. Someone please help :confused:
Termination of Support: California Family Law: Child Support and the Hague Convention
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